I know.... Everyone does diss Martha for Mary, but in general, our culture values extroverts, and the church isn't immune. It's caused me massive guilt, past and present, because I'm extremely uncomfortable with the currently popular witnessing practices. They're great for some people, but, especially when I was a young teen in a church that valued "soulwinning" above all else, including prayer and Bible memorization, they caused me massive guilt. There's an article I found in WORLD on the subject--I'll have to email the text of it to you. It's refreshing to have someone say that introversion is created by God, and can be used by Him as much as extraversion!