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anna.the.gentle

anna.the.gentle

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i feel so guilty! did you ever feel like you loved a person so much as if he/she was your soulmate? then later on, you would just suddenly push them out of your lives? then later on, you would regret it? i did; and i felt the pain.

i thought this really cool guy was cute and nice so i had a crush on him... soon afterwards, i dont know what happend! it's like, something told me to stop liking the guy. one day i just told him in YM my new crush. usually, i mention him... but now not anymore.

earlier, i chatted w/ him again as friends. then i asked him a few questions. then he said "i have to go. bye! take care!" i froze. i felt so guilty i wanted to cry. i was so mean to this person then suddenly now, he talks to me as if we were the best of friends! he never said that to me before. i feel so guilty!

any advice?
 
Well, I don't think you should have broken the news of another crush over the Internet. It's easier for you, but so impersonal.
It's okay to push people out of your life if they are total jerks or make you uncomfortable, but if you just didn't have a crush on him anymore, that's not really a good reason to break off contact altogether, If you two were going out, he gave you his heart for that amount of time, and it's important to be careful.
I can tell you really do like him, if not THAT WAY, you know, so you didn't do it on purpose. Apologize, and tell him how you feel. He sounds like he would understand.

Best wishes.

Number one rule for teen girls- boys are icky.
 
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I'm sorry, BUt that has happened to me before....well, sort of. I'm sorry you feel giulty, but you shouldn't. Just be thankful that he still is your friend!! You can still be friends, and it seems to me by what you posted that he stil wants to be/ IS your friend!! So........everything seems great between you too. And if it bothers you anymore, jsut apologize to him for any hard fellings......sorry if this isn't the bes advice....:D Good luck!!
 
pfft..whatever. BUt you could MAKE HER LAUGH!! With the nuber one rule to all teenage girls boys are icky thing!!! lol. that was pretty good idea!! try to actually cheer her up!!!:D
 
Guilt, in its proper place, is something you should cherish. It's God's way of letting you tell yourself you're not a total jerk. Every time I do something I regret and I feel guilty about it, I remind myself that I have feelings and a conscience. Then it motivates me to go out and fix the wrong thing I did.

When you are angry, you should use the fierce anger to go out and do hard work to get it out of your system. But when you are guilty, you should use the pain to go out and perform an act of extraordinary love to heal the wound and, hopefully, grow from it.

John
 
EveningStar said:
Guilt, in its proper place, is something you should cherish. It's God's way of letting you tell yourself you're not a total jerk. Every time I do something I regret and I feel guilty about it, I remind myself that I have feelings and a conscience. Then it motivates me to go out and fix the wrong thing I did.

When you are angry, you should use the fierce anger to go out and do hard work to get it out of your system. But when you are guilty, you should use the pain to go out and perform an act of extraordinary love to heal the wound and, hopefully, grow from it.

John
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Whoa...that was brilliant. You should start an advice column of something here on Narniafans, if there isn't one already!!!:D Your really good!!:D
 
No unhappiness aloud while I'm here kays. If you feel guilty just say sorry, it really does sound like he'll understand (sorry thats the best advice I can give I'm no ES).

Us teen girls can not let teen boys take over our whole lives we must fight back, with pitch forks if we must. SO CHEER UP AND REMEMBER ALWAYS BE HAPPY :D !
 
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