He ended his relationship with The Dancing Lawn voluntarily and will not be coming back.
It was a combination of factors, but to put it briefly, the young man has some issues he's dealing with. He asked me not just to ban him but to IP Ban him and physically delete his account.
I discussed his reasons with him, trying to make sure this wasn't some burst of passion that would go away and leave him embarrased and begging to be let in. But no, his reasons have been consistent as he discussed thinking of leaving. This has been on the way for a long time, and finally it happened.
I've communicated with him since then. He does not regret leaving. It's safe to assume he won't be back.
He did not feel comfortable with the Narnia fandom culture, though he still likes the movie and books. And that's fine...everyone is not the same. I wish him success as he finds a clique he feels more comfortable with.
Now that I've said all that, I'm locking this thread out of respect for the topic and ... ahem ... Peter Cottontail.