I really like this guy...

not to be mean, but if you're just in middle school you shouldn't even be thinking about having a boyfriend, you'll just get hurt, you should be hanging out with your friends, you can be friends with guys but at your age you realy dont want a boyfriend
 
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NineTails_Kunoichi said:
Well...a guy at my middle school...named Jeff Rattana(WHO'S TOTALLY HOT!!!)...well should i just start with a simple hi or ask my friends to tell him if he wants to get with me?
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Talk and get to know him.Don't judge him on his looks cause he could be a real jerk.And check if he has a girlfriend.Don't seem all depserate either......
 
If you really like him, just say hi.. it doesn't kill to be just a friend at first. Chances are you'll get over him soon enough. ;)

How old are you anyway?

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Shizuka_Rose said:
Talk and get to know him.Don't judge him on his looks cause he could be a real jerk.And check if he has a girlfriend.Don't seem all depserate either
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yeah, my friend once liked this guy, and she was so obsessed with him, for like months... and then when she danced one dance with him she found out he was a jerk... but yeah...
 
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Yeah it's sad how girls go crazy over boys who don't even know they exist.

EDIT-Middle school is kind of young.But it's natural.
 
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I don't want to be rude either, but I agree with oxford_girl. Right now, you are still young, and the whole boy-girl relationship thing should wait a while.You'll get your chance in the future, but having a relationship at your age is not the smartest idea. I have seen way too many girls around your age and younger/older whose relationships went down the depths. Normally, dating while you are still in school never works. Most of those relationships never last. So I encourage you (since I couldn't make the choice for you) to patiently wait. Your time will come. You could still be friend with him though, but nothing more. :)
 
Shizuka Rose said:
Yeah it's sad how girls go crazy over boys who don't even know they exist.

EDIT-Middle school is kind of young.But it's natural.
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IMO, i think it's stupid. How girls go all ga-ga and drooly over some guy... and will do ANYTHING to get their attention...

but I'm into the whole "independent woman" thing, so.. :rolleyes:
 
OG has my support. Whoever this guy is, chances are he won't become your husband; no matter how hard or long you dream.

Be friends with guys; not romantically, just friends.

I'm 15 and don't have a boyfriend; and that's perfectly ok with me. I'm waiting for my own Knight in Shining Armor to come at God's perfectly appointed time.
 
I say make friends with him but don't get too attached I am going through a break up and this guy has been my friend for 3 years and I have to break it off with him and it hurts so I say be friends but don't get too attached!!
Trust Me Amy!!

Your Friend,
Emily :)
 
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