That's a shame. We play the waiting game then.
Perhaps there aren't a lot of women around 59 who are really on the market, or want to be... there is a divorced lady I know who is 47, but she is already too tired to find someone. I also know a man who just turned 40, who lives a solitary life, he's never had a wife nor does he ever want one. It makes me feel sad sometimes, how some people just give up so easily. Love and company are very important things to have in life. You are young at heart and have a lot of love to give. Unfortunately, not everyone can endure for so long. Instead they turn to pets or hobbies perhaps because humans and relationships are too complex for them. Or even worse, they sadly wallow in loneliness. It is good that you're proactive. If it is willed to happen, it will. I pray it does.