If I'm married by next year (NO takers for that right now), it would make it "legally" permissible to have you and your Mom stay in my guestroom; but I don't know if my future wife would object to having two women she didn't know come in like that. My being single would make it easier to DO things with you.
It's all up in the air anyway. I have no idea whether God has any plans to LET me marry again. So far, all the interesting unmarried women I know seem to think I'm not cool enough, or not young enough, or not tall enough, or not sexy enough, or not rich enough....or too serious in my Christian faith.