I am pretty sure there's one nearby. Maybe if you look harder? They can be hard to spot when one is looking in the wrong places. Not that you are looking in the wrong place but... it takes a little effort to spot them. The nice girls too, you know?
Let me see... I work with little children in foster care and adoptions. Sometimes I work with older kids, like 16 and 17 year old kids who are having a hard time... and at Christmas time it breaks my heart for all the struggles they have to face at such a young age... I don't know if that makes me gentle but I want to help them find a better life, or at least make them feel special for the short time I am with them.... And I can hold a baby and defend him with my life if I could.... but I don't know if that makes me gentle either because I would also kill to defend the innocent and defenseless.