Our Chinese students should really spend a lot of time on study. That's why I didn't come to this forum often. It is true that one couple only could have one child in China, especially in cities, but you won't understand it until you come here. It is very different from your country. When will you come to China? Learning a little Chinese will help you a lot while you are in China. By the way, I'd like to ask all the friends here, that which part of China are you come from? Maybe we could have chats on some software like MSN