no, the forum is not getting annoying
the reason why everyone loves the forum is because you can be yourself in it. i mean, i joined because of the narnia books, and i still love them, but the books section is just not so good working as the duffer section. But that is not a bad thing, the members who want to talk about narnia books can post in the narnia books section, the persons who want to duffer, post in dufferland, persons for skandar/william/anna/georgie/other people nites post in cast and crew. that is the great thing about here.
i personally think that people should be able to post anywhere they want, i'll tell you honestly, if the forum was only about narnia a lot of members (probably including me) would get bored and leave the forum, that would also happen if the nites would be shut down, and why would that happen, i mean, if they post in their threads then what is wrong with having nites.
just as the party thing, if you don't like the partys anymore, then don't go to them, but do not spoil the fun for others who do like them.
the great thing about this forum is that a lot of different people come here, and we don't want to exclude people, do we? so i think to make this a better place we just have to accept each other, and post in the threads we like, and respect that other do the same, even if we don't like their threads
it's all about respect, dudes