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I never really thought about it but He kind of seemed sexist. I don't really know if he is or not because he is in a way but he's not in a way.
You are getting all this from the idea that girls shouldn't fight in battles?Slideyfoot said:What the book is telling her is that she needs to go find herself a nice young man, marry him, then cook his food, stay at home and have babies.
Agreed -- but how are you getting this from LWW? The girls have as exciting and fulfilling lives as the boys, and no one gets married ... so I am not sure where you are getting this idea?But to only have one option in life, while another individual of the exact same age, capability, intellect etc has thousands of options purely because they have something else between their legs is an utterly abhorrent - not to mention seriously anachronistic - concept.
That is more in response to PrinceoftheWest's comments about Lewis:Inkspot said:I don't think Lewis is advocating the idea that women have only two options in life: mother or virgin.
...Lewis believed that the differences between men and women were more than just plumbing and hormones. He believed that the sexes reflected greater and deeper realities. Now, it doesn't matter if you believe this, the important thing is that Lewis believed it, and wrote from that framework. For instance, Susan and Lucy aren't just characters who happen to be female, they represent the Female in Lewis' literary framework. In fact, they represent even more, since they are maidens (virgins), and thus bear a much deeper burden of meaning...
...But the more foundational reason why battles are ugly when women fight is that it violates the meaning of the Female. Women are not only the foundation of civilization, they are its wellspring. They are the keepers of the hearth and the home. It is from the home that the men go out to fight and build and travel and plant and harvest. But the reason they do that is that they ultimately come home to the center. That's the reason for the fighting and building and traveling - to protect and provide for the most important thing of all. So when a woman abandons the center to go out and do those things, it is an ontological violation: she's violating her identity.
Inkspot said:Father Christmas doesn't tell the girls, "You can't fight in a battle." He tells them he does not mean for them to: his best hope is that things will never get so bad that they will be forced to fight.
"...For you also are not to be in the battle."
"Why, sir?" said Lucy. "I think - I don't know - but I think I could be brave enough."
"That is not the point," he said. "But battles are ugly when women fight. And now" - here he suddenly looked less grave - "here is something for the moment for you all!"...
Inkspot said:Surely the fact that he gives them weapons means he does not exactly think of them as the "delicate treasures made of glass easily broken" that you describe ...
It doesn't sound like it to me. Having spent the battle sobbing and acting as a dead weight to be carried round by lions and horses, Susan has the thrill of being "tall and gracious". Peter, on the other hand, is a "great warrior", while Edmund is "great in council and judgement". What do Susan and Lucy get to be great in? Susan is apparently attractive, but never marries, while Lucy is merely "gay and golden-haired", which again brings her suitors ("all princes in those parts desired her to be their Queen") which again she seems to refuse. So, they look nice, but thats it; not what I'd call 'exciting and fulfilling', particularly in comparison with their brothers.Inkspot said:The girls have as exciting and fulfilling lives as the boys
Saying that men shouldnt fight for and even possibly die for us is like telling a woman not to provide and take care of children for her husband. It's something that comes naturally its an instinct and all men in their right minds have it, you cant stop men from trying to protect women. See, this is why i dont like the feminist mindset, men try to do something that they feel is right and feminists all over get cranky bacause they "underestimate" women and are automatically sexist. Oh yeah, Father Christmas was SO sexist, thats why he gave Susan a bow and arrow and Lucy a dagger, so that they would completely rely on men to handle it because he didnt expect them to take care of themselves. He gave them weapons cause he didnt think they could do it. yeah right...jillthevaliant said:ok, that's really nice that father christmas wanted to protect the girls, but it's really not for him to decide. yes, he's "giving a suggestion", but still. it's up to the girls to decide.
did it ever occur to anyone that maybe (the) girls (whether it's lucy and susan or just women in general) don't want to be protected by men all the time? ok, yes, it might be the male "responsibility" to protect the female, but they might not want to rely on the men to take care of them and fight for them and die for them. yes, battle is an ugly affair, but still. that doesn't stop women today from fighting in iraq or pakistan (and i'm not saying that that's the entire reason that women join the army).
i'm not telling men to stop protecting women-GO AHEAD IF YOU WANT TO!!! i'm just saying that maybe not all women want to be guarded as though they're china waiting to fall apart the second that someone even touches them.Gryphon said:Saying that men shouldnt fight for and even possibly die for us is like telling a woman not to provide and take care of children for her husband. It's something that comes naturally its an instinct and all men in their right minds have it, you cant stop men from trying to protect women. See, this is why i dont like the feminist mindset, men try to do something that they feel is right and feminists all over get cranky bacause they "underestimate" women and are automatically sexist. Oh yeah, Father Christmas was SO sexist, thats why he gave Susan a bow and arrow and Lucy a dagger, so that they would completely rely on men to handle it because he didnt expect them to take care of themselves. He gave them weapons cause he didnt think they could do it. yeah right...
gryphon said:He gave them weapons cause he didnt think they could do it. yeah right...
inkspot said:LOL, have you read all the books? Susan shows her stuff as an archer in Prince Caspian, and when the children in that book discover where they are (in the ruins of Cair Paravel, thousands of years after their Golden Age), all are swept up in nostalgia for the life they remember as kings and queens in Narnia, apparently the girls were as joyful there as the boys.
Inkspot said:Do you think if someone does not become a great warrior or a wise judge that they find no fulfillment in life? Many men and women become neither, and yet their lives are meaningfully and happily spent.
Inkspot said:I take it that you are not a follower of Christ, since you didn't address my point about the joy Susan and Lucy experienced simply being in the presence of Aslan being worth far more, and far more enjoyable, than fighting a losing battle alongside their brothers? They were no more "dead weight" being carried by Aslan than we will some day be "dead weight" in the arms of the Savior in heaven -- his presence was all their joy. Would they have willingly chosen, instead of being witness to his glorious resurrection and united with him that day, rather to be proving their stuff on the battle field? Perhaps, if you are not a follower of Christ, this makes no sense to you, and you cannot imagine a Being whose very presence would be light and joy to you. For me, I believe simply being with Christ -- and for the kids I believe simply being with Aslan -- a much greater joy than any battle field experience could give, than any experience will ever give.
If you cannot imagine such a thing, if you cannot feel the pleasure of the girls in Lewis' description in the book, I cannot, perhaps, very well explain it. He seems to think this romp with Aslan was one of the best experiences anyone had in the whole book. And I think for us believers, united with Christ, it will be.
Inksport said:As for Susan's being given a horn ... it was not because she was a "mere girl" that she received it: it is later used by Cornelius and Caspian in Prince Caspian, both males. It was quite a useful gift for anyone who might ever encounter trouble.
Inkspot said:After Susan plays the horn and Peter slays the wolf threatening his sisters, he sobs right along with the girls -- and the book informs us that no one thinks any the less of you for that in Narnia. You must not think because Lewis allows the girls to shed some tears that they are weak -- why should they not cry over the death of Aslan? In Magicians Nephew, it is Diggory, a boy, who cries great tears over his mother ... tears in themselves aren't reserved for girls and shouldn't be taken as a sign of weakness or inability.
Edmund, like Susan and Lucy up the tree, must be rescued from peril by others -- he is not able to dispatch his enemies on his own. But he is not emasculated because of this, and Lewis was not indicating bad boys are weak by not allowing Ed to deal with his captors on his own -- any more than he meant Susan and Lucy were weak or breakable by allowing Peter to rescue them. It's just how the story moves along: Susan and Lucy are attacked by a wolf, and Peter saves them, then they all cry.
The Lion said:“It was all Edmund’s doing, Aslan,” Peter was saying. “We’d have been beaten if it hadn’t been for him. The Witch was turning our troops into stone right and left. But nothing would stop him. He fought his way through three ogres…”
Inkspot said:As for Lucy's receiving the vial of healing oil, that was the most useful gift of all. How much more difficult it is to restore life and health than to take it away on the battle field! If she received such a gift on account of her being a girl, then everyone should wish to be a girl and receive the same. Healing is not so particularly feminine: it is a great gift. Remember in ROTK, "the hands of the king are the hands of a healer." Aragorn, a man among men has such a gift -- surely that doesn't reflect weakness or femininity.
Inkspot said:You seem convinced that if Father Christmas told the girls not to be on the frontlines, that he was somehow dooming them to dull lives. But it does not seem to me that they had dull lives, ever, after coming to Narnia. If they did, the books would have been very dull, which to me they are not. There is nothing wrong with Susan's being gracious -- I hope I may be remembered in much the same vein ...
Inkspot said:Do you like the stories at all, and if so, why? I am just curious, as they seem to offend you ...
andslideyfoot said:Father Christmas is essentially saying that it doesn't matter what women want, they have to do what men tell them.
what you are doing is bristling at the implied subordinate significance of the women (I'll leave aside the question of whether Father Christmas actually meant that, or whether that's an interpretive overlay on your part.) Your posts are shot through with these kind of statements, so I hope you'll agree with me that the significance of the person is indeed the central issue - as it is with all question of sexism and racism.slideyfoot said:Edmund is a mere year older than Lucy, yet he does not suffer similarly patronising treatment
is clearly that the girls were not given the same opportunities to achieve significance as the boys were.slideyfoot said:So, they look nice, but thats it; not what I'd call 'exciting and fulfilling', particularly in comparison with their brothers.
But to Lewis, being with Aslan was the place of honor. All the guys did was fight, for pity's sake - and they weren't very successful at it (in case it escaped you, both in the book and the movie they were losing the battle until Aslan shows up.)slideyfoot said:Having spent the battle sobbing and acting as a dead weight to be carried round by lions and horses
PrinceoftheWest said:This puts you in a bind, since as an atheistic materialist, you don't acknowledge that man can be held up to any standard but the cultural mores he constructs himself. When it comes to morals and standards, the only leg the materialist has to stand on is that of cultural consensus. Whatever the members of a given culture decide is right for them, that becomes their set of mores, right? But if that's the case, then what right does any culture have to judge another one for issues like sexism or racism? What right do you have to refer to Lewis, or the culture he came from, as sexist? If those were the standards and mores of that time and place, then who is anyone to say they are "wrong"? Because "wrong" implies an absolute standard, and once you invoke an absolute standard, you have to explain where you got it.
Nonetheless, because you are obviously intelligent and seem willing to try, I'll have a go at it.
inkspot said:I like your new avi, Gryphon!
Gryphon said:Oh, and Slidyfoot Father Christmas didnt want them to use their weapons, your right but just because he didnt want them to use it doesnt mean that he didnt expect them NOT to. As for women being "fine china" and "breaking the instant someone touches them" you dont know a true battle like you seem to think you do. People die in battles and while i wouldnt mind fighting alongside a brother, battles really are nasty affairs and some men, even strong ones, have a hard time surviving. Even if they do survive, they are haunted with the memories of people dying in front of them as they have to kill them themselves. Battle isnt as majestic as it seems in the movies. Would you really want those memories? Father Christmas, i believe, wasn't just protecting them from physical harm but spiritual harm as well...
Inkspot said:I would love for you to join the Mere Christianity reading group over in the Christianity and Narnia forum, because this issue of morality is just what we are discussing and just what Lewis discusses in the first three chapters of the book! If you have any interest at all, please join us and share your perspective a an atheist!
We are all reading the book right now and just started with chaters 1-2 in the discussion. You may certainly drop in, even if you aren't reading the book, you are most welcome. If you get a chance, the book is excellent. I don't know that Lewis wrote anything about the Narnia books, but there is an excellent compilation of his letters to his young fans called CS Lewis' Letters to Children, with editors Lyle Dorsett and Marjorie Lamp Mead. He talks a lot about Narnia and his perceptions/intentions in letters to children who wrote to him. It's quite interesting. What is your PhD in?Slideyfoot said:Nevertheless, thanks for the invite; hopefully I'll be able to take you up on it at some point.