So...Who's On Now XV

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Wow, I feel like a jerk for just leaving earlier, but I thought I was going back to my dorm, so I packed up my computer real fast. Sorry (if anyone involved in that situation is even still on...)

Starkissed said:
Mars, you like a guy? :D
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Yeah, I do...:eek:

I feel kinda silly for trying to keep this little discussion alive, because it's so much about me, but I really need to sort of vent about it somewhere...
 
Starkissed said:
It's okay Mars. I'm here to listen. What's on your mind?
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Thanks Ash... :eek: It just seems like worrying so much about guys is so superficial when so much really important stuff is going on with other people.

Well, there's this guy and I just feel so happy when I'm around him and he's so sweet and such a nice personality that I want to be friends with him and then maybe more later on. My problem is that I'm really shy around people, even more so around guys that I think are attractive, so I haven't really had a real conversation with him in person. It's easier for me to talk to people over the computer. Anyway, I finally did talk to him, earlier tonight, on Facebook chat :)rolleyes:) and we got to talking about some things, what we were doing, etc., and then we got onto the topic of a band he likes. It turns out they're playing a free show this Wednesday on campus, and he said that "a small handful of [them] are going" and that I'm "welcome to come". Now, I would love to go, but I don't know if I should, because maybe he just invited me to be polite, but he didn't think I would really want to go. I always overthink things, and I don't want to mess this up, but I don't know what to do. And if it's a bunch of people I don't know, I'll end up feeling even more uncomfortable.
So I'm very confused right now. And I want to talk to him again (he's on right now) but I don't want to seem like I'm pestering and being an annoying little freshman. I'm just so confused.
Also, this is the most contact I've ever given toward any guy I've ever "liked". In the past I have never tried to befriend them or talk to them, so this is all a big step for me.

Anyway, if you read that crazy novel, thanks. But really I just needed to vent, and any advice would be nice. :eek:
 
wat doctor's appointment, urr sick!!!! dont be sick!!!!!!!! being sick is bad very bad!!!!!!!:(:eek::eek:




Ashlee i didnt get a hug.........
 
LOL! Tia, I'm so sorry. :( *bear hugs*


Mars, I understand where you're coming from. I tend to overthink things as well. However, when I'm in doubt, I tell myself that if I wasn't wanted there then I wouldn't be invited. Maybe if you talked to him again ask him if it'd be okay if you brought along a friend of yours? I do that at times. It makes me feel less uncomfortable in social situations when I won't know anyone other than one or two people. I hope it works out for you. Let me know when you decide what to do. :)

Aurora, I remember a lot of things. :) I'm here. That's as positive as I can get towards my mood lol. I do hope it goes okay for you.
 
Mars, u could ask him if hes sure it would be ok with him if u go, tell him u dont kno these people, then he will probably say something lik oh ill introdue u dont worry,


Aurora, i luv your name too, i always wanted to name one of my daughters Aurora, and this was before i met u, i wrote in the "Whats the name of ur future name" thread
 
uniquemonke said:
wat doctor's appointment, urr sick!!!! dont be sick!!!!!!!! being sick is bad very bad!!!!!!!:(:eek:
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It's not something that can be helped. I'll get better... In a year. >.<
Starkissed said:
Aurora, I remember a lot of things. I'm here. That's as positive as I can get towards my mood lol. I do hope it goes okay for you.
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Aww, why aren't you happy? Be happy! Smile! :D
uniquemonke said:
Aurora, i luv your name too, i always wanted to name one of my daughters Aurora, and this was before i met u, i wrote in the "Whats the name of ur future name" thread
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Thanks! I've always loved the names Mya and Tia or anything along those lines. :D
 
It's hard to smile when you're so miserable. I wish I could stay in bed and not move until this dark cloud is lifted.

I'm sad for various reasons.
 
Starkissed said:
It's hard to smile when you're so miserable. I wish I could stay in bed and not move until this dark cloud is lifted.

I'm sad for various reasons.
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Aww, don't be sad. It'll make me sad too. :(

Thanks for the advice by the way. I think I will maybe try talking to him again.
 
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