So...Who's On Now XV
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Mrs. Pevensie
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That is the truest thing I've heard all day.
i'm just so frustrated...i want to throw in the towel, but at the same time, I was to give it a try.
Sforzando77
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I know what you mean. This guy is just being so confusing to me. I don't understand them at all.
Mrs. Pevensie
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yes, i am also really confused. I gave my guy an awesome chance to tell me how he feels, and what's going on, but he just ignored me...i don't understand boys at all!
Sforzando77
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Yeah, the guy I'm dealing with... I've talked to him, but only over the computer. And we get along great then, but in person he pretty much ignores me. So I just don't get it.
Ok, I'm not a boy anymore, but I know.
here is one rule: BOYS CAN'T READ MINDS.
Boys (like the ones you are talking about) and men are very simple creatures. They do not get you. If you are just standing there waiting for him to tell you what you want to hear, it ain't happening.
You have to TELL them what you want. If you do, and he is into you, he will do what you want!! Try it.
However, if after you tell him what you want and he is still acting stupid, then he may not be into you.
Men are clueless. It is up to you to give them the clues!!
here is one rule: BOYS CAN'T READ MINDS.
Boys (like the ones you are talking about) and men are very simple creatures. They do not get you. If you are just standing there waiting for him to tell you what you want to hear, it ain't happening.
You have to TELL them what you want. If you do, and he is into you, he will do what you want!! Try it.
However, if after you tell him what you want and he is still acting stupid, then he may not be into you.
Men are clueless. It is up to you to give them the clues!!
Mrs. Pevensie
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oh, my gosh, my situation is so similar. I only text my guy...and when i'm with him in person he doesn't seem interested, but he's always tells me how much he likes me, yet he doesn't show it! Geez girl!!!
Sforzando77
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Thanks for the input BK
That's true, I'm sure. But my additional problem is that when I'm around this guy, I get fairly shy, so it's harder for me to talk to him
oh, my gosh, my situation is so similar. I only text my guy...and when i'm with him in person he doesn't seem interested, but he's always tells me how much he likes me, yet he doesn't show it! Geez girl!!!
Wow, that's so bizarre! Yeah, it's a really difficult, confusing situation.
Starkissed
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Hey people. Not on for long...
Mrs. Pevensie
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thanks for the advice Barbarian Kind...but unfortunately you confirmed my fear. I did tell my guy what i wanted and he was still stupid. But I've also given him the chance to say that he's not into me...and he still insists that he really likes me, so I don't know what to do now.
Thanks for the input BK
That's true, I'm sure. But my additional problem is that when I'm around this guy, I get fairly shy, so it's harder for me to talk to him
Yeah. that would make it hard to give him any clues. He might be interpreting the shyness for disinterest and he may be afraid of saying anything. He may be fearing a "thanks but no, thanks" from you!
Sforzando77
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Aww, that's a really hard situation Angela. I wouldn't know what to think at all.
Ugh, that's what I'm worried about too. And he's pretty shy himself. So I've been working on being more social and a bit more talkative, it's just going to take me a while.
Mrs. Pevensie
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Starkissed
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Yeah so uh, I wish I could give some good advice on this one but I can't.
I've come to find that I could live without a relationship....for now.
I've come to find that I could live without a relationship....for now.
Mrs. Pevensie
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Yeah so uh, I wish I could give some good advice on this one but I can't.
I've come to find that I could live without a relationship....for now.
i've been without a relationship for 4 years, so i'm going to give this one a good effort...but i think my efforts might turn out to be a waste of time. But at least i can say I tried to make it work
Sforzando77
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Yeah so uh, I wish I could give some good advice on this one but I can't.
I've come to find that I could live without a relationship....for now.
i've been without a relationship for 4 years, so i'm going to give this one a good effort...but i think my efforts might turn out to be a waste of time. But at least i can say I tried to make it work
I've never been in a relationship (other than friends) with a guy. So this is all quite new to me, and I'd like to see where it could go, but at the same time it is all so confusing.
Starkissed
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i've been without a relationship for 4 years, so i'm going to give this one a good effort...but i think my efforts might turn out to be a waste of time. But at least i can say I tried to make it work
Exactly. I don't blame you really. You don't want to be able to think that maybe you could have done something. I would do all that I could in this situation and if it turns out to be no good then you're better off.
Mrs. Pevensie
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yeah, i just hate to think about how we have the same friends...so if our relationship ends on bad terms, i'm going to still have to see him. But it will be that awkward situation where we ignore each other. I mean i'm super good friends with two of his brothers...so that makes things really awkward.
Starkissed
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I'm gonna go to bed. Night all.
Good luck Mars and Ang. Do let me know how it turns out. See ya later BK.
EDIT: Ang, I hope that doesn't happen to you. I'll pray for you and Mars.
Good luck Mars and Ang. Do let me know how it turns out. See ya later BK.
EDIT: Ang, I hope that doesn't happen to you. I'll pray for you and Mars.
Mrs. Pevensie
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I'm gonna go to bed. Night all.
Good luck Mars and Ang. Do let me know how it turns out. See ya later BK.
Goodnight Ash...you know i'll give you an ear full the next time i see you
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