here's nothing wrong with being sorrowful because of separation.
Exactly, and that was part of the point of my post. I feel that children especially need to hear that it is OK if someone they love dies. Part of the fear children have of death and the Rapture is that it plays into their innate fear of abandonment. Ever seen a child lost at a zoo, or a park, or a store? They honestly think their parents abandoned them, even though their parents ( at least any sensible parent) are probably already looking for them.
It's even worse for a child at a funeral. You can't say "don't worry, mommy will be right back" because she can't come back. It's the final abandonment. While I would hope to have the faith and strength to tell a child "stop crying, grow up, mommy is in a better place." I know the better thing to do is take them in my arms and let them cry.
Lewis I feel tells children there is nothing to fear in death if you are ready, with out resorting to scaring them half to death and making them sleep with the lights on.
And yes, I read the Left Behind books. All 12 of them, plus the prequel trilogy, the sequel set during the Millennium, and all 40 "kids" ( kids is in quotations as the way I see it, if a kid under the age of 11 isn't ready for The Diary of Anne Frank or Corrie Ten-Boom's The Hidding Place, then they are not ready for Left Behind: The Kids.) novels. Now lets stop a moment. That is a total of 56 books, 57 if you count the nonfiction book they wrote on the subject. I can admit that is an impressive feat. Lets look at some of the so called "greats" of literature and their output-
William Shakespeare-36
Charles Dickens-20
Jane Austen-17
Mark Twain-14( not counting individual short stores)
Dante-12
Jonathan Swift-10
John Milton-27
Nathaniel Hawthorne-1
Herman Melville-20
Chaucer-10
John Bunyan-2
CS Lewis-37
JRR Tolkien-13. ( my numbers wer off in my first post. I ahd to check my self again, and I count LOTR as one book as he intended.)
Homer-2
Sophocles-7
Even I can admit that 57 books is impressive. In terms of output alone, LaHaye and Jenkins win. However even they admit that there was some speculation on their part of a few of the details and some aspects that were poetic licensing for dramatic narrative purposes. Also, after a point author fatigue was setting in, but at least they stuck to it.
Not only did I read Left behind, for a long time, all I wanted to read was Christian End-Times fiction and studies on eschatology ( which included both pre-trib and post-trib rapture views.) In fact it got to the point that I all but abandoned Narnia, and my mom had to practically twist my arm around to get me to even pick up LOTR. I had decided at that time, "what is the point of reading about made-up fantasy worlds when it is more important to be prepared for the end of this world." ( I eventually found my way back to reading fantasy books). In fact it was because of this obsession I finally read 1984, Brave New World, Fahrenheit 451, and oddly A Tale of Two Cities all because of references to these books in End-times stories ( though for some odd reason I kept expecting some one to offer Sidney Carton the Mark of the Beast in Tale of Two Cities. I think it had something to do with the guillotine).
In reading all the end-times novels I noticed that no two series were the same. Many of the details were different from book to book, almost too many to name here in this post. Namely none of the scholars can agree on the whole Rapture thing (so it is probably for the best that Lewis didn't delve into it). They all seemed to favor the guillotine though ( thankfully that is absent in Lewis' book. I doubt kids would have been able to handle seeing Eustace Scrubb, Jewel the Unicorn and a few of the good dogs beheaded like Marie Antoinette.) Certainly I agree with AK that The Last Battle should not replace a thorough study of Eschatology, any more then I believe any of the fictional series should replace such a study.
I have the feeling when the real Last Days happen, and I believe it will, it will most likely not look like how it did in any of the books or films I saw. In fact I venture to guess that when the curtain is drawn and the last page is written on the book of history, the real thing will make all the fictional books I read on the subject look like how Indiana Jones and Captain America: The First Avenger look next to say Schindler's List, The Hiding Place, or The Diary of Anne Frank.
And for the sake of clarity lets just call the Last Battle CON:LB to differentiate.