See how insightful I am? _Without_ knowing your personal history, just by knowing you are a decent young man, I _knew_ you would be aware of "the pearls throwing themselves to the swine."
It is a phenomenon I have remarked on in the past, here on-forum. I believe that in some cases, the girl subconsciously believes: "Goodness equals weakness, therefore any man who treats me kindly _must_ be too weak to protect me. For self-preservation, I must offer myself to a bum, and hope I'll pick a bum who'll be _less_ mean to me than his rival bums."
It is a phenomenon I have remarked on in the past, here on-forum. I believe that in some cases, the girl subconsciously believes: "Goodness equals weakness, therefore any man who treats me kindly _must_ be too weak to protect me. For self-preservation, I must offer myself to a bum, and hope I'll pick a bum who'll be _less_ mean to me than his rival bums."