It is normal love!!! You are hurt so of course you think about him but I wish I could slap him for being so stupid! You are such a great and awesome girl! It is this stupid fool's loss!!!
Not that I'm fishing for compliments or anything, cough cough, but if you haven't already seen the sonnet I wrote for you, it's there on the Sonnets thread.
Say, did you ever read my long poem in Writing Club, "The Tale of Sophia Renee"? The leading male character in that story is intended to show how a man SHOULD treat a woman.
Vanessa's right. I needed to talk about each of my wives after they died. And in a way, you have suffered a WORSE loss, because you suffered BETRAYAL. Both of my wives died truly loving me, and I expect to meet them in Heaven; but your false boyfriend completely destroyed what you thought you had with him. So do talk as much as you want.
The most worst thing for you is to STOP talking about it. Maybe your friends get tired of it but it is something which hurts you deeply. The best medicine is NOT to stop talking about it. When you reach a point you get tired of talking about him again it means you are getting over it
Honey nobody can tell you just to get over it. Even when you know he has been mean and cheated on you it is still a process of grieve. You can't take it lightly. This really takes time. People shouldn't tell you to just get over it. They must allow you to talk and get this load of your chest. It is still a big grieve.
Of course I replied!!!!! I remembered everything you said to me back then so I really feel bad for you sweetie. Especially for you I returned How can I stay away from my ToJ???