That's what I said. You cannot "love" as in "LOVE" someone you don't know anything about. That's why I disagree with the statement quoted below.
You have to know someone or at least know a lot about someone to be able to truly love that person. Wanting someone after you meet them is purely a lustful desire not love. With love, you must have the other person's well being in mind, not yours. When you desire someone as soon as you meet him/her, you want YOUR needs met, not the other person's.
And that's what happened in PC with Susan and Caspian. That's why it's hard for me to see Caspian in an honorable relationship now with Ramandu's daughter. I do hope though, that somehow they manage to overcome that problem.
Like I said, I disagree.
I really hope I don't make enemies by digging up old threads and defending a matter of which few people approve. That is not my goal at all.
I do agree with most of what BK said. You cannot fall in love when you first meet someone. That is pure lust. This is accurate in our world. I don't know if it's the same in Narnia but let's say it is. There are still several factor we need to consider before we dismiss the Suspian romance in PC as ridiculous and immoral.
1. We know from the books that Susan (and I think at least one of the books says this is true of Caspian as well) was an attractive person. A person's outer beauty can cause one to take notice of said person as a possible love interest. Granted it's somewhat shallow, but most people aren't blind and looks are the first thing we tend to notice. That doesn't mean it's lust. It simply means you think God did a wonderful job with His creation. There is nothing wrong with noticing a person's beauty. Could've been the initicial cause of the Suspian romance. Doesn't make it lust.
2. You make is sound as if they new nothing about each other even by the time of the imfamous kiss at the end. We should consider the fact that they were in a war together. They had plenty of time to get to know each other. It is very hard to clearly define the passage of time in a movie because you only have about 2 hours at the most to discribe events that took place over weeks, months, or even years. Truth be told, we have no idea how long they were at Aslan's How together. We know it probably wasn't a short time as wars are not won overnight. We know the Narnians were fiecely outnumbered by the Telmarines and if they had any hope of winning the war they would've spent a great deal of time planning at Aslan's How before they made any moves. As the leaders Caspian and the Pevensies more than likely had to spend countless hours together planning everything and such. And I dare say being stuck in such a position one could learn far more about his comrades than was ever desired.
3. C.S. Lewis didn't seem to dwell much on romance. I mean really, Caspian got married and there were only a few paragraphs to discribe such an intense romance? This tells me that if Narnia were real and C.S. Lewis were a reporter bringing us the facts of an actual story (that would be soooooo awesome! Dream with me for a sec! Ok moving on) and if the Suspian thing had happened, he probably would've omitted it altogether anyways. I doubt he would've even mentioned Ramandu's Daughter if he hadn't had SC in mind. Just because something was not mentioned in the book doesn't mean it couldn't have happened, it just means C.S. Lewis didn't put it in. RD was never named in the books but that doesn't mean she didn't have a name, period. RD's mother was never mentioned either but that doesn't mean she didn't have a mom. (Was Caspian's mother ever mentioned for that matter? I can't remember. oh well. lol)
Lastly, I think the Suspian thing, if handled well, could actually help the Caspian/ RD romance in the movie. It almost seemed rushed and slightly shallow in the book, in my opinion. I think it may be good for Caspian to have to make a conscious decision to engage in a relationship with RD. I think it would be good to show that he doesn't take this romance lightly. If he has to put some thought into this and decide who he likes more it may actually add depth to the romance between him and his future wife.
That's my take