Kitty was surprised at the news. "but i thought you guys were really happy together! And Anna, you're not responsible for tearing up his life. No one is completely to blame in this situation. Janeis is part of the problem just because she seems to be really sensitive and maybe a bit dramatic. But I can't say I completely blame her, cause I've been there and its hard. Jimi is part of it because Janeis doesnt feel like he spends enough time with her, and you are part of it because you should be doing everything in your power to make friends with Janeis. Look, you're not responsible for tearing up his life. If he thinks you're tearing up his life, HE can end things. If you really want him to be happy, then stay with him, because YOU are the thing that makes him happy. I'm sure he wants YOU to be happy, too. And the thing that would make you happy is to be with Jimi, right? The thing that would be selfish wouldnt be not ending things, it would be to end things just to satisfy your guilt. Jimi can take this into his hands, Anna. It's more his problem than yours. You can help him, of course, but don't feel guilty for ruining his life when you're the one thing he wants in it."