Let me say ...
I'm so sorry, love. That is very hard. You're in my prayers. Did you ever hear about Rabbi Joachin? He went to this poor man's house for the night, and the poor man welcomed him, fed him, gave him a place to sleep, and that night the poor man's cow died. Then the rabbi moved on to a rich man's house the next day, and the rich man was rude to him, made him sleep in the barn, and wouldn't give him dinner, and Rabbia Joachin mended a hole in his stone wall. The rabbi's servant said it was so unfair - the poor man who was nice had his cow taken from him, and the rich man who was rude got his fence mended.
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