I agree completely, obessing is wrong. I just have a silly crush on her. It is very important to keep a balence when you begin to like someone, otherwise it can become unheathy and end up consuming you. I'm slowly starting to back off a bit and allow this crush to just be minimal and not allow it to get out of hand. But despite my crush, I think Kirsten Dunst is a talented actress and I pray that she will come to know Christ and give up some of her unheathy habits.