Staying Pure
Revelation 14:4
"These are they which were not defiled with women: for they are virgins. These are they which follow the Lamb whithersoever he goeth. These were redeemed from among men, being the firstfruits unto God and to the Lamb."
Staying pure in a day when purity is not admired is quite a feat. The young people of our day don't seem to be concerned with staying pure and virgin until the day they get married. Purity among adults seems to be a rare commodity when extra-marital affairs are accepted as long as nobody finds out.
Yet, when you look at the verse above, God talks about the importance of not being defiled. God went further when He described the hundred and forty and four thousand when He said they were virgins. Being a virgin is important to God or else He would not have mentioned this virtue regarding these people. I find in the verse above some things that young people and adults ought to do in order to stay pure. When I say pure, I say it with a two-fold purpose. Regarding the youth, I am talking about staying a virgin, and with the adults I am talking about staying pure and keeping themselves only for their spouse.
The first step to staying pure is to follow God. Notice it says in the verse above that they "follow the Lamb." In others words, when you keep your eyes completely on Jesus, you will have a better chance of keeping yourself pure. Jesus must be the focus of your life, and when you make Him your focus, then purity will be your focus as well.
Secondly, to stay pure you should not follow the opposite gender. I want you to notice that the people in the verse above followed the "Lamb" making Him the "firstfruits" of their lives. These people were not concerned with following the opposite gender; they were concerned with following Christ. When you start following the opposite gender and make them your focus, you will end up losing your purity. Following the opposite gender will get you focused upon what they can give you instead of what you can do for God. Never follow the opposite gender, for your focus should be upon Christ.
Next, to stay pure you should associate with the right crowd. You will notice in the verse above that to stay pure they associated with others who wanted to stay pure. You will never keep your purity while running with a crowd that could care less about their purity. You must learn to associate yourself with the right crowd. When you associate yourself with the crowd that wants to stay pure, you lessen the pure pressure to lose your purity.
Last of all, to stay pure you must have pure conversations. You will notice in verse 5, that "...in their mouth was found no guile..." In other words, keeping your conversation pure will help you to keep your purity. You will have a hard time keeping your mind pure when you have inappropriate conversations. The words you speak come from your heart, therefore, you should be sure to speak the right words and only listen to those who speak properly.
As a Christian you should do your best to stay pure. A married person should desire to be pure throughout their marriage. Keep yourself pure from inappropriate relationships with the opposite gender by keeping yourself for your spouse. Young people should desire to stay a virgin until the day they get married. Walking down the aisle a virgin on the day of your wedding should be your ultimate desire.
You will never accomplish these feats unless you purposely set out to do them by following the Scriptural suggestions above. You can stay pure if you will follow these steps. Decide now to be pure from this day forward.