Ugh, no. I can't stand the new movie. I don't plan on seeing the sequel in theaters. The main reasons why I even went to see the new movie were: 1. I had never seen a Trek in theaters, 2. Eric Bana, and 3. Karl Urban. Karl Urban played the absolute BEST Bones in comparison to everybody else. I really loved him in the movie, but nobody else. I have a list of gripes against the movie, but what really irks me is the fact that J.J. Abrams (a Star WARS fan, no less), decided "I don't like this storyline, so I'll just change it to do what I want it to do." In Star Trek, there's room for playing with time; you can do it and go back and it not hurt anything. But Abrams, I think, is and was trying to recreate a Star Trek that isn't what most fans love and enjoy. The universe in TOS is far, far different from the universe he presented, and I prefer the old one. Goofy as TOS is, it's classic, and you shouldn't mess with a classic like that...
Not to mention, you ruin how the characters developed and who they were when you kill off people like Kirk's father and Spock's mother (and destroying Vulcan). Kirk's father being alive was what made Kirk who he was in TOS, and Spock's mother shaped Spock quite a bit; you can see that in the movies, especially.